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Burn that Candle You’ve Been Saving (it’s collecting dust anyhow)🔥🕯

I’m a candle saver. I have scents saved for every holiday. They collect dust like the rest of the decor. They sit out and never get burned, like I’m “saving them for a special occasion” or something like that.

This morning, I’m having a classic case of the Mondays. Training new staff from scratch. Drank my coffee cold. Juggling negotiations. Lost a listing (or never even had an opportunity) to someone else for a family we support weekly. Rental has gone sideways. I stepped in dog doo-doo 💩 not once – but twice – walking to the office. I’m feeling super stressed. This week is off to a rough start.


Then… breathe.💨

I lit the candle.🕯

Took a quick quiet time-out with Jesus.🙏

Turned on some Elevation Worship.🎶

Hopped on an accountability call with Coach Wayne.🏆


Go ahead and light that candle – you never know who may need to see it shining


Everything is going to be just fine. More than fine. We are growing. We are working outside of our comfort zones. We have favor. We are blessed.
No matter what you are going through today, take a moment and reflect on the blessings around you. Breathe.

Go ahead and light that candle – you never know who may need to see it shining 🕯🙏🔥🌞🙌🏡💕

Consider it all Joy, Facing Life's Storms, Prayer

Dust Off and Be the Light (in the midst of all the crazy)

2 1/2 years ago an amazing friend (whom I don’t see nearly enough of!) named Natalia Drumm started a Bible study in her home. We were all ecstatic, as we knew Natalia had spent countless hours writing, editing and publishing this study for us to dive into together, as #GirlfriendsInTheWord. We arrived to find sweet little bags with our names on them, inside was this precious study cover which (if I remember correctly) she stayed up into the wee hours of that morning making so they would all be ready for our 9:30 arrival.

“What’s something you need to ‘pull out of the closet’ in order to make this study work in [your] life?”
– Me (2 1/2 years ago)

As you can see, they were absolutely beautiful and breathtaking, as I look it over once more I can’t help but notice every intricate gold stitch, each embellishment and the precision used to create just one of (25ish?) many that she crafted. Although I’ve had many of her studies come and go in this study sleeve, I have only jotted into the journal once. To re-read this today after all this time is fitting considering many of us have been “quarantined” at home for about 20 or so days now, and we’ve all been doing those rainy day tasks that we never want to make time to do (for me, it’s organizing closets, yuck)! It reads:

“8/30/17 What’s something you need to ‘pull out of the closet’ to make this study work in my life? What do I need to let go of?”

*gasp*
Umm, hello, God. Yeah, I hear you talking to me.

There it is, MY own words challenging me almost 3 years later… to pull it all out, prioritize what is most important and focus on His plan going forward in this crazy Corona season.

This past Sunday our Pastor Brian shared from one of my favorite books of the Bible: Philippians. Naturally, I’m continuing my study there this week and this passage resonated with the words I inscribed in my journal 3 years prior: 

Do all things without grumbling or disputing, that you may be blameless and innocent, children of God without blemish in the midst of a crooked and twisted generation, among whom you shine as lights in the world, holding fast to the word of life, so that in the day of Christ I may be proud that I did not run in vain or labor in vain.” Philippians 2:14‭-‬16 ESVhttps://bible.com/bible/59/php.2.14-16.ESV

*double gasp*
Ok, we hear you in the back.

So we have to run businesses from home, HOMEschool our littles, maintain a relatively tidyish household, play peace keeper to everyone confined in our spaces, cook (or order in) more than ever, pretty much wear a hazmat suit before daring to go out for essentials – all while attempting to keep yourself together and sane.

Take this time to do the things you’ve been “saving for later”. Dust off your Bible, your devotional, your journal, or to meditate… in the midst of all this crazy, I think we can all find 10 minutes to meditate on His word, reflect on the blessings that surround us and use it to Be a Light to others. Some people are scared, maybe alone. Some are uncertain about how they’re going to make their next mortgage payment or when they’ll get the opportunity to go back to work. Time is slowing down and there’s absolutely nothing we can do to stop it (although staying home really helps).

Take a breath.
Step back.
Do the things you’ve been needing to do.
Be a light and an example to others… “without grumbling“. It will be hard, especially for me, but I’m trying!

Dust off. Take a look around and see what you may have otherwise missed in the hustle and bustle of your busy life. I’m super glad I did, as it brought me back to Natalia’s beautiful creation, this barely touched journal and beacon of light which has cast light on the fact that I need to s-l-o-w down, focus on what needs to be done around me and Be the Light to everyone around me.



You can check out Natalia Drumm’s website and Bible study resources by clicking here!
Her Girlfriends In The Word (GITW) series and information can be found by clicking here. Be sure to follow her goodness and sign up with your email for her Free weekly devotional series.

Consider it all Joy, Facing Life's Storms, On The Road, Uncategorized

Caught Up in the Multi-Tasking Chaos

I don’t love multi-tasking, it makes me anxious. When I don’t have 100% of my focus on something, I feel a little lost, out of control and like I’m just not totally genuine on giving my all to the task at hand.

Thennn I get stuck in a minivan for about 7ish hours, get caught up in 4 accidents and the hotspot is more like lukewarmspot, so the download speed of the pics for our new dream home listing (which I’m unfortunately not buying) – which is why I’m forced to multitask.

Multi-taking or Noise?
Stuck in traffic, for the 4th time and the hotspot is less than warm, guess it’s time to dust off the journal!

So, I pick up my journal and write.

A play-by-play of the 146 mile journey so far:

• Ideas for future blog posts

• A checklist for things I need to get for our next roadtrip to satisfy rowdy children

• Topics of interest to discuss with my Coach Wayne to better my business and life

… maybe this isn’t so bad after all? I never would’ve just busted out the journal and started scribbling my thoughts had the noise of the internet and social media kept ringing in my ears.

I think I like this.

I think I’ll do more of THIS.

Less noise and more downtime.

As we drive through the rolling hills of Ocala, memories of road trips with my family come flooding back. I think I’ll have the boys power down the Nintendo for the night and take a look out the window, let their imagination run wild.

Sunset over the Ocala hills
As we drive through the rolling hills of Ocala, memories of road trips with my family come flooding back.

Whatever it is that is wreaking havoc in your head and causing you to not find joy in the moment, STOP.

Recognize it.

Put it on pause.

Take a moment to do something you love and bring a little joy to this moment. Sing. Draw. Read. Pray. Color. Go for a run (or a walk, if you’re me). Play the guitar. Push your little on the swing. For me, lady, gooo journal.

Find something that captivates you and enjoy it, you deserve it.

Epicness, Jeeps, Life Goals

Test-Driving Happiness, Josh Pray & My Jeep

This is an open vlog to Josh Pray to challenge you to test drive happiness, James Corden carpool-style, in my Jeep.

Who is Josh Pray and why do I want him to test-drive General Leia?

Per his Facebook bio, he’s a hilarious Comedic personality with a focus on family, adult and personal entertainment.  He has a real passion for comedy. Bringing laughs to others is one of the things he enjoys most. The comics who inspire Josh are Martin Lawerence, Benji Brown, and Jim Varney – whom of which he hopes to follow in their footsteps soon!

…again, why drive my Jeep? This. This video right here. This vlog he’s titled “I want A Jeep😕😕😕😕 jeeps are life!” that has had OVER 2.3 MILLION views in the last week?!

Smells like lotions, and candles, and good credit and approved loans….. hahahahaha. The Realtor inside is dying. I love this, I’m seriously fan #2,300,001.

Josh had such a positive response from the Jeep Community, he followed up with “The reason Jeep’s are needed“:

Jesus would drive a Jeep. Jeeps starts with JE. Jesus starts with JE. Ok, I HAVE to meet this guy, he’s tugging at 2 of my heartstrings… Jesus, Jeeps… I wonder if he likes Java?!

SO. Josh needs to join the Jeep family, and what better to do it than to drive an hour up the Florida Coast and check out my beauty, General Leia?! I think I feel a challenge coming on…

Whaddya say, Josh? What’s that you say? Create an Instagram story asking your 55,000+ Insta followers if we should do this?! Oooh, it’s ON!!

Josh Pray's Instagram Story
“Should I take the offer” 🙂 Josh Pray’s Instagram Story to take on my Jeep Challenge!

 

Maybe… that’s a “yes”?!

Instagram Message
“Hey! Where are you located” *please work out, please work out*

 

Who knows were our Jeepin’ adventure will go? Keep checking back to see if Josh Pray takes on my Jeep Challenge!

Community, Epicness, Life Goals

Behind the Scenes of Charlotte High School’s Epic “One Take” Video

Step aside, “High School Musical“, Charlotte High School‘s epic 4-months-in-the-making-10-minute-medley comprised of 80+ lip synchers, over 1,500 students (including Principal Corsaletti and the Tarpon Mascot!), over school 45 clubs and 150+ posters painted by the Art Club, is comprised of amazingness that wins national championships!

…and they did this with one take. Oh, yes. 1. Numero Uno. It is total perfection and sums up what a high school experience should be. I’ve walked these halls, corridors, gymnasium and cafeteria countless times back when my husband and I were Leaders for Charlotte Harbor Young Life – this is a lot of ground to cover – so one take is truly a noble feat!

Charlotte High School Art Teacher and Varsity Cheerleading Coach, Emily Baniak, shares an inside look of all the awesomeness behind the scenes and *gasp* never before seen clips during and following shoot (see below)! Baniak says, “Approximately 4 months ago a team of 5 students came together to create a school-wide project promoting spirit. The team met with administrators and staff members to plan the details of this event down to every last student’s location. Students signed up for the club, sport, or class they wanted to represent out of over 45 choices. Art club spent two weeks painting approximately 150 posters to hang or have students hold throughout the route. The day before the event, over 50 students stayed after school and well into the evening helping to decorate in preparation for the event. The school was completely transformed! It looked like something out of a movie. The morning of the recording, the students that were lip syncing arrived at 6:30am to walk through their route. Students came to school dressed to the nines in their blue and gold spirit wear and team jerseys. Once the school day began, all students were shown an intro video outlining the goal and examples of what this should look like. Everyone was dismissed to their locations, and 4 large speakers were simultaneously playing the music as the camera traveled around the school! The entire video took 9-10 minutes to film and there were no practice runs. After the camera passed each section, students moved to the courtyard for the final scene. I have never seen so much excitement or spirit in any group as I did during that shot! The quick ending shot in the video doesn’t do it justice! Students were screaming and cheering well before the camera even made its way to this area. Teachers were gleaming from ear to ear recording the excitement of the students, and the entire student body was jumping up and down, holding students on their shoulders, tossing balloons, and holding signs. I couldn’t help but have chills and feel so overwhelmed with hope and encouragement. With over 1500 students participating, there wasn’t ONE student that tried to do something inappropriate or out of line. No decorations were ripped down and no students tried to act out in front of the camera, which is an unbelievable feat when you consider the demographic of so many teens. It was evident that the student body and staff knew that this event was so much more than a school project. It represented the pride that our whole community has for CHS, the joining of all students to represent diversity and unity, and the hope that despite any differences we share, we are all a family that is able to celebrate together as one. When the video concluded everyone stayed in the courtyard for at least 5 minutes celebrating what was accomplished. I know tears of excitement and relief were shed from the team members. There was a lot of doubt going into this project that it could be a disaster. The 5 team members had enormous weight on their shoulders because if the ONE recording was messed up at any point along the route, the video would be ruined. After several minutes of celebration, the students proceeded inside to begin cleaning up. It was incredible to watch. Students weren’t running around or causing trouble. They were all so enamored, inspired, and thankful to be part of this project. In less than 30 minutes the school was cleaned and students returned to class for a normal day- but with a little more love for CHS than before.”

 

 

 

 

Art Club
Art Club made 150+ posters that are featured throughout the entire video.

Behind the scenes
Behind the scenes

 

*drum roll* – – – The moment you’ve been waiting for… pure fun, heart and Tarpon Pride all wrapped up in just 10 minutes of incredibleness!

Take a bow, Tarps! You’re making national headlines and going viral. We are so proud to have Charlotte High School in our community and of all of you involved! Check out the article written by Fox in Atlanta this morning (click here).

“One School. One Family. One Tradition. One Take.”

Facing Life's Storms, Uncategorized

101 Hurricane Tips from Hurricane-Surviving Floridians — brokerEXCLUSIVE’s Blog

Florida is beautiful, which is why daily people move and retire here from all over the world (many to South Florida from the Northeast and Midwest) to trade their bitterly cold winters of shoveling snow for taking in sunshine, seemingly endless beaches and the warm salty air. With all the wonderful and good things the Sunshine State has to offer also comes the bad – mosquitoes, humidity (coupled with bad hair days) and hurricanes – just to name a few.

As Florida natives of 33 years (hubby too), we’ve seen ALL kind of storms. John lived through Hurricane Andrew in 1995. In college we waited out Wilma and Frances at his parent’s house in Fort Lauderdale. In 2004, Hurricane Charley that leveled my hometown where we lost our roof and I lost absolutely everything in my room (from yearbooks, childhood memories, etc). Then we’ve seen “big storms” that have ventured off course or dissipates. In fact, many times I remember growing up we’d be excited about “Hurricane Days” at school because they almost always turned into a gorgeous beach day (Florida friends, I know you remember these days and hurricane parties)!

Nonetheless, we’ve seen our share of hurricanes and the truth is, you never seem to know how things will turn out until it’s passed – or until Jim Cantore shows up to your ‘hood.

We’ve been blessed to make it to this day to say that we’ve survived all the storms in our past and we will – WILL SURVIVE – the storms that are yet to come. Scrolling through the newsfeed on various social media sources, I’ve seen some pretty smart, practical, clever, silly and even insanely crazy ideas for some tips, advice and thoughts on how to prepare for and survive a hurricane from many of our Floridian friends(with some extra tips from my bestie, Nurse Kellee). Including this, which is sort of scary, but true. We live “here”.
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Whether you’re a seasoned storm survivor or if you’ve just moved to Florida and in panic mode because Publix or Walmart ran out of water, here’s a few list of things to keep in mind, put into practice and do when you’re preparing for a hurricane (note: these are in NO particular order,  is not a complete or exact list that will work for everyone. Be smart and safe!):

1) Have a plan. If you don’t have one, start making a checklist now, an evacuation plan if needed and implement one or two of the suggestions you see below that you may find useful.
2) Get gas. Fill gas cans, top off vehicles. Last night around 10pm we called around to see who had gas and ended up going to a station that was filling up at that exact moment.
3) Buy bottled and gallon jugs of water.
4) Fill tupperware and freezer bags and start filling your freezer, you can use this as ice packs later, extra drinking water and water for pets.
5) Stock up on some non-perishables. They always tell you to be prepared for 7-10 days, make sure you have enough goods for everyone in the household, even your pets!
6) First-aid kits, scrounge up all you have around the house and pick up what you don’t have: including latex gloves; sterile dressings; soap/cleaning agent; antibiotic ointment; burn ointment; adhesive bandages in small, medium and large sizes; eye wash; a thermometer; aspirin/pain reliever; anti-diarrhea tablets; antacids; laxatives; small scissors; tweezers; petroleum jelly). Throw them in a bin!
7) Take pictures of important documents and upload them to your cloud (email yourself f you don’t know of any clouds other than the ones in the sky) or external storage device (such as a USB/pen drive) that you can easily take with you
8) Take videos. Rooms. Exterior of your home. Etc. Upload to your cloud (or other places) to easily access them after the storm for inventory and/or insurance purposes
9) Fill your bathtub. Not necessarily for drinking, but flushing toilets or maybe rinsing your mouth out if you decide you brush your teeth to feel human
10) Put your shutters up. If you can’t, see if someone can help you
11) Know your flood zone!! Check with your insurance agent to see what your zone is, you need to know if you’re prone to flooding, in which you need to make extra preparations (sand bags, flood insurance, etc)
12) Exterior goods need to be secured in a shed/garage. Patio furniture, grill (we are brining this and all propane tanks inside), potted plants, etc all become deadly projectiles during high winds and tornadoes
13) Get cash out of the ATM. Lots of it, as you can’t use your credit card when there’s no power
14) External battery packs. Thankfully we had a few Mophie chargers that will be a HUGE help (I’m not sure how I survived before without my wireless Charge Force Station)
15) Family up north you’ve been itching to visit? Now is a really, really good time to do so!
16) Determine whats priceless and irreplaceable to you, keep them close or take them with you. Consider putting heirlooms & photos in plastic bins in a high place, second floor, or safe room if you don’t plan on taking them with you.
17) If you don’t have time to leave, now is the time to check with your local government on shelter locations. Here, most schools are locations so do not wait to check on these! (Click here for Charlotte County Emergency Management)
18) Medications. Get prescriptions filled asap, keep medical supplies together and prep a cooler to keep these things cold if needed
19) What are the speeds of different hurricane categories?

Wind speeds of hurricanes:
Storm Category Winds
TROPICAL STORM 39-73 mph
CAT 1 74-95 mph
CAT 2 96-110 mph
CAT 3 111-130 mph
CAT 4 131-155 mph
CAT 5 Over 155 mph

20) LAUNDRY! My most dreaded chore, but get it ALL done now. You’ll thank yourself later
21) Itty bitties: diapers, wipes, formula, blankets, pillows, pacifier (or 4-5)
22) Littles: Pull-ups, wipes, blankets, pillows, pencils/crayons/notebooks, a board game or 23) special teddy and a few things to pass the time (we will likely be playing with Pokemon cards and learning the ins and outs of every single Pokemon in existence if we go without power for a few days)
24) Teens: I don’t have any teens, but I’d think now would be a good time to pick up a good book series (maybe a Harry Potter book or two?) and bring back the Walkman!
25) Since you just did all your laundry, sort out enough clothes for at least a week to 10 days (at least it’s less to put away!)
26) Unless you’re Jim Cantore, as tempting as it is to go outside to see what’s going on mid-storm, please be safe (and smart)… don’t:

27) Start using up your perishables to make more room for ice in the freezer
28) Bug repellent!! (mosquitos are no fun)
29) Pick up pet and livestock food & supplies
30) Share your evacuation plans with loved ones and family members so they know where you’re headed
31) Secure ALL firearms and ammunition properly
32) Old rags & beach towels on your windowsills. Even with the best windows & shutters, water seeping from the wind pressure happens. A few damp towels is better than soaked drywall or floors
33) If you don’t already have your hurricane supplies, you need to stop reading this and start heading out now. Many places are running low, you may be able to call ahead or do in-store pickup
34) Brush on on your non-electronic solitaire skills with REAL CARDS (courtesy of Bicycle: click here)
solitaire

35) Flashlights, lanterns and candles… we bought a mini flashlight for each kid so they felt safe
36) B.A.T.T.E.R.I.E.S. you can never have too many, stock up. A few lighters would be good too.
37) Pick up some adult beverages (CM for you, Mike Martin!) or wine to keep yourself a just a bit sane. When the power goes out, you can drink whites first, as reds will still be good later. Just today a customer of ours brought me this as a “Thank You” and said to add to our “hurricane supplies” (thank you, Emily!)
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38) Weather Channel does their updates every 28 and 58 minutes past the hour
39) Dust off the emergency radio and listen to a NOAA Weather Radio for critical information from the National Weather Service (NWS)
40) Click here for the difference between hurricanes, typhoons and cyclones (American Red Cross)
41) Never underestimate the power of a nice long, hot shower. Take one before power goes out
42) Generators are your friend
43) If you have this said generator, purchase a wall A/C unit. Once power is out, you can board your family up in one room in the house with the A/C unit and seal off the door with a mattress to keep one room super cool while you wait for power to be restored (we did this during a storm at my in-laws in college, genius and kept us sane with no power for over a week!)
44) Park vehicles as close to the house as possible (we have them horizontally in the driveway close to the garage)
45) Stock up on Oreos. Just because, almost everyone loves Oreos
46) When you lose power, cook EVERYTHING that will go bad. Better to have too much food than let it spoil and you can share with those who don’t have much or any
47) Boil water to make it safe for emergencies (more info here from Centers for Disease Control and Prevention)
48) Flooding/storm surge/water is the leading cause of deaths during hurricanes, NOT wind. “According to the National Hurricane Center, storm surge, rainfall flooding, high surf, and deaths just offshore (within 50 nautical miles of the coast) combined for 88 percent of all deaths in the U.S. from hurricanes, tropical storms or tropical depressions from 1963 to 2012.”  (more info here by The Weather Channel)
49) Check with your local school district about closures. If they aren’t closed and part of your family’s plan is to evacuate, call for an excused absence, family safety first! (Local friends for Irma click here: Charlotte County Schools Sarasota County Schools)
50) Look for your vet records in case you need to shelter your furry friends at a storm-safe facility
51) When sticking out the storm in your home, gather your family into the most innermost room with no windows, if possible. We’re sticking with the half bath, “shoe room” and possibly the under-the-stairs closet
52) The Dollar Store has a plethora of glow-stick necklaces and bracelets, this would be great at night with the kiddos to make everything a little more fun and less scary
53) Get a few boxes of Uncrustables to accompany your few bags of Veggie Straws, Chewy Bars, trail mix and Goldfish… (or snack of your liking, of course)
54) Fill up your Sun Pass for tolls, or make sure you have change for them
55) Make sure you have one of these bad boys (bonus: most can open beer too!)
can opener
56) Set aside cooking tools and fuel, charcoal and propane
57) Paper plates and plastic utensils are your friends (you can’t run the dishwasher, remember?)
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58) Check on your loved ones, family and even your elderly neighbor that lives alone. See if they need help, if they have needs. If you can’t take them in, get them in touch with someone who can help or a local shelter
59) You did laundry already, make sure with your clothing you have rain gear and sturdy shoes. I wanted to buy these but I’m pretty sure they don’t exist (Lilly Pulitzer, please get on this, I’ll take one in YGR or RRR) 🙂
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60) Toiletries and hygiene items. Toothpaste. Brushes. Face wipes. Deodorant (maybe more than one).
61) If all else fails with plumbing/sewer/septic, maybe have a shovel close by to create your modern day outhouse at back. Sh*t happens. (pun intended)
62) If you’re reading this early enough to get a shipment, Amazon Prime is my new favorite hurricane prep tool for everything… even if it’s an extra French Press (momma NEEDS coffee)
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63) Amazon Prime for everything but water, that is, unless you’re cool with paying $10-14/gallon. I almost fell into this trap until I read the reviews!
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64) Do the dishes now, the goods sitting in the dishwasher are going to be stankkk when you can’t run it and it’s too late
65) Keys. To your house. Car. Shed. Storage unit. Motorcycle. If they aren’t all in one, safe place now. Get ’em together.
67) Travel safe. Interstate travel during evacuations and emergencies are no joke. Know the conditions before you go, as gas is a precious commodity. (Florida Highway Patrol’s latest Traffic Incidents)
68) Toolset. Know where it is, put the tools back that have been laying around the house in random places, etc. You never know when you’ll need them
69) Pets. Do you know where there carriers are? Leashes? Muzzles? Meds? Portable dishes/tupperware? Prep for your furry friends
70) You thought you had enough together to entertain your littles? Maybe grab a few extra toys, books and games to keep your sanity
71) You have a family plan, how about work? Make any necessary arrangements you need to professionally, be safe and smart, your health and well-being is of upmost importance
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72) DO NOT wade through standing water after the storm, you never know what’s in them, between alligators or live power lines that have fallen
73) Pools are perfect for bathing
74) Canals, ponds and lakes (in Florida) are NOT perfect for bathing, there are alligators!!
75) Turn the refrigerator and freezer to the coldest setting and keep them closed as much as possible so that food will last longer if the power goes out
76) Turn off propane tanks and unplug small appliances
77) Again, know what’s going on in your community and be prepared to evacuate if advised by authorities. Be careful to avoid flooded roads and washed out bridges
78) **Please check with your insurance agent**  standard homeowners insurance doesn’t cover flooding, it’s important to have protection from the floods associated with hurricanes, tropical storms, heavy rains and other conditions that impact the U.S. For more information on flood insurance, please visit the National Flood Insurance Program Web site at www.FloodSmart.gov
79) Sunscreen, especially when you’re spending time putting up shutters/prepping your home as well as getting everything back to normal afterwards (and you may also want to pick up an extra bottle of bug repellant)
80)  When your internet is out, so is Google Maps. Invest in one of those old fashioned paper ones just in case (get a paper map of your county/town/area)
81) Draft a list of your family and emergency contact information
82) If you are evacuating, be sure to only return home when local officials say that it is safe
83) Keep away from loose or dangling power lines and report them immediately to the power company (praise God for our lineman who will be braving the storm to keep us safe)
84) Thank a first responder, they are in most cases not with their families to protect them from the storm or evacuate… thank them for their service to our community
85) Post-storm, inspect your home for damage. Take pictures of damage, both of the building and its contents, for insurance purposes
86) Safe & Well with American Red Cross: If your community has experienced a hurricane, or any disaster, register on the American Red Cross Safe and Well Web site available through RedCross.org/SafeandWellto let your family and friends know about your welfare. If you don’t have Internet access, call 1-866-GET-INFO to register yourself and your family
87) Clear loose and clogged rain gutters and downspouts to prevent flooding and unnecessary pressure on the awnings
89) If you don’t own hurricane shutters, protect windows with one-half inch marine plywood that is pre-cut to fit your doors and windows
90) It’s ok to eat ALL the Ben & Jerry’s Phish Food in the freezer, it would be a shame to let it go to waste
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91Storm Surge: is the abnormal rise of water generated by a storm’s winds. This hazard is historically the leading cause of hurricane related deaths in the United States. Storm surge and large battering waves can result in large loss of life and cause massive destruction along the coast. Storm surge can travel several miles inland, especially along bays, rivers, and estuaries. (NWS/NOAA)
92Tornadoes. Tornadoes can accompany landfalling tropical cyclones. These tornadoes typically occur in rain bands well away from the center of the storm (NWS/NOAA)
93) Other places to store water, in your washing machine (top loader) and well tank. Also good for rinsing off, flushing toilets etc
94) Vitamins, keep your body going. (and in my husband’s case, a 6-pack of Monster)
95) Reinforce the garage door
96) First I’ve heard this, but was told to put an ax in your attic in case of severe flooding.
97) Comfort foods. Really, no power. No A/C. No cell service. No Disney Jr for your kiddos. It’s stressful, have some of your favorites on-hand.
98) Whistles for every person, you never know
99) I didn’t order this in time, but my bestie did. A solar panel charger, USB, external battery, 2LED flashlights and carabiner for your cell or tablet – it’s like the modern day Swiss Army knife. Brilliant.
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100) A Swiss Army Knife (or any multi-tool) has always been good to have on hand, since 1897. Quite the selection here.
101) As always, once you feel your checklist is complete and you are 110% prepared for a storm, ask yourself WWJCD? (what would Jim Cantore do?) Everyone knows he’s where all the action is, you can follow his tweets here.
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We have a Hurricane Season EVERY YEAR from June 1st – September 30th. Every. Year. We are survivors. We rebuild. The only thing we cannot replace are our lives, so no matter what you decide to do during a major storm, be safe. Be smart. Plan ahead. Prayers that the Good Lord be with you in your travels and all your decisions that you make to keep you and your family safe.

**Disclaimer: I am in no way an expert in hurricanes, a first responder, doctor, meteorologist, psychic or Jim Cantore – please be safe and take all necessary precautions to stay safe and always double check with your local government when planning and evacuating for an emergency.

Whether you’re a seasoned storm survivor or if you’ve just moved to Florida and in panic mode because Publix or Walmart ran out of water, here’s a list of at least 101 things to keep in mind, put into practice and do when you’re preparing for a hurricane. (note: these are in NO particular order, is not a complete or exact list that will work for everyone so please be smart and safe)!

via 101 Hurricane Tips from Hurricane-Surviving Floridians — brokerEXCLUSIVE’s Blog

Consider it all Joy, Uncategorized

Don’t Let Them Steal Your Joy…

Rainy sunset Charlotte Harbor

With rain running down my back and a few tears in my eyes, last night I edited this beautiful sunset peering through the stormy sky over Charlotte Harbor while I recited words in my head for what would be my next blog post. Little did I know what would happen a whole 30 seconds after I took this photo would break me for a brief moment…

Have you ever had one of those weeks where you feel extremely overwhelmed and although there was some amazing and positive things that happened that week, you still seem to dwell on the things that went wrong? Things that made you feel insufficient and overall focus on all the little negative moments of what in reality was a pretty successful week? This past week: me = guilty.

I could make a looong list of the week’s pros and cons (sort of like my tendency to resort to the “Stranger than Fiction” tragedy vs. comedy list) and I’m sure my pros would outweigh the cons, hands-down. For instance:

  • I’m alive, for starters
  • 1st week ever having ALL 3 kids in school at the same time (after dropping off #2 & #3, hubby and I went to breakfast at John Ski’s House of Breakfast where we devoured our own meals without sharing and enjoyed coffee that was still hot!!)
  • blessed with the opportunity to help 2 1/2 buyers put their new homes under contract (1/2 buyer will make things officially official this week!)
  • hubby installed a new stainless sink tub with no divider (total game-changer for washing pots & pans) and a new toilet in the half bath (the beauty of homeownership, seriously, it’s the little things that make me happy)
  • all of us made it to Awaken Church (not on time, but we made it)
  • I scored Rae Dunn finds at both T.J. Maxx AND Marshalls in the same day (pretty much the equivalent to a huge instant win on a scratch off)
  • Checked Counting Crows off the bucket list and saw Matchbox Twenty a 2nd amazing time (yay for adult Easter baskets!)

Add in countless kisses, hugs and “mommy, I love you’s” along with a couple end-of-the-evening foot rubs from my better half, I’d say this has been a pretty awesome and accomplished week in the books!

Then it creeps in… the negative. Rejection. Constructive criticism (which can be great, but a tough pill to swallow at the moment). Misunderstandings. A cracked flatscreen (compliments of a 4 y/o who’s grounded for a month). Betrayal. Failures. Arguments. Depressing thoughts. Don’t even get me started on the chaos in the news (it makes my head and heart ache).  Although these brief moments were certainly few and far between, the anguish they cause seem to burn deeper into your memory and weigh heavier on your heart. Is that normal, or is it just me?

Tonight was icing on the cake of the weeks’ irritating instances, as what started out as one of our regular Sunday funday family nights with some good ol’ Pokémon hunting, pizza dinner and a walk along the waterfront quickly turned into me sitting quietly on the ride home and plunging into deep thoughts about this very post. Shattered. Shaken. Broken.

We always enjoy watching the sunset as we walk back to the truck or sit on along the sidewalk at the park, but today we didn’t think we’d get that chance get a glimpse with the summer storms bringing in the evening. Pulling into Laishley Park it started to drizzle, rather than all of us walk our last stretch of Harbor Walk, all the boys stayed dry and cozy in the truck while I hopped out and made my way into the rain to attempt to capture the photo of the sunset (above).  Although it doesn’t look super spectacular, the photo really doesn’t do tonight’s portrait-of-a-sky much justice. I took a few panoramics, an Instagram story vid and started to make my way back towards the truck before the heavens parted and released the rain in buckets. Walking back to the car, I encountered 4 teenage boys crowding the sidewalk with their bikes. Since they had blocked the path, I strayed off to the left, made brief eye contact and gave a swift “hello” nod as I continued on my way.

No one, likes to be cat-called, ever. Apparently no cat-caller(s) likes to be ignored, either.

No one, likes to be cat-called, ever. Apparently no cat-caller(s) likes to be ignored, either. As I beelined for the truck, the comments got louder… and meaner. Finally one yells out, “hey, are you pregnant?” … *still no reaction* another responds, “no, she’s just fat!”

“Wow. Really? I actually thought I looked nice in this flowy dress when I was getting ready for church today”, was the thought in my head, then I realized they were only trying to get a reaction out of me. I kept walking.

Silly it seems, that with all the negative encounters I’ve had all week that this would break me, but then it hit me: he who hates me is trying to steal my joy.

Silly it seems, that with all the negative encounters I’ve had all week that this would break me, but then it hit me: he who hates me is trying to steal my joy. Only 30 seconds before this incident I was in my photo zone, capturing another one of His masterpieces and just standing in the rain in awe of how even on the stormiest of evenings His light shines through the darkness.

22 Therefore you now have sorrow; but I will see you again and your heart will rejoice, and your joy no one will take from you. (John 16:22 NKJV)

It took me a couple of hours to come around, to think about how on earth I could take such a cruddy moment and use it for His glory, inspire others and help heal my own wounds from the week. The answer is to seek Him, it always has been and always will be. So thankful for the promise and hope we have in him when we feel as though our joy has been stolen. No matter what Case of the Mondays today may bring to start off your week, just remember: you’re loved, you’re beautiful just the way you are and you’re alive.